Ok, so, I’m not really sure why they listed them 10-1 instead of 1-10. It’s kind of really messing with my OCD. I am going to make my list 1-10, so that we aren’t doing some kind of countdown or something, lol.😆😂 I’m blogging, not launching rockets.🙄💁😉 Anyway, I’m back for “part 2” of my INFJ series! I will be basing this post off of the list above.
1)We are better at writing than talking.
This is probably the main reason I blog. I can write a paper way easier than I can give a speech. Writing just comes natural to me.
2)We can mimic other personalities.
This quote explains it good enough.😄
3)We can be intense if you get on our bad sides.
I wouldn’t call myself “dangerous”, but the statements above are accurate. Many times, I have the opportunity to roast somebody and don’t, because I don’t want them to be offended or upset. But, I could if I wanted to.😉
4)It may be years (if ever) before we completely open up to you.
5)We are very sensitive to criticism.
If someone criticizes an INFJ, they will take it to heart. Even if it wasn’t meant to be taken seriously.
6)We are very loving.
If we count you as one of “our people”, you will be loved, defended, supported, and more, to the best of our ability. The only way to be removed from that postion in our hearts, is if you remove yourself, or get door-slammed.
7)We have unwavering principles that, if violated, can turn us into some of the most stubborn people.
I am pretty easy-going until you mess with my principles. A really good way to turn a friendly debate into a full-blown argument, is to argue against my principles. I wouldn’t really suggest you do that; it takes a lot of self-control for me to keep it friendly.😉😂
8)We soak up others emotions and energy.
This is true. We will soak in the emotions of those around us, until we are feeling them stronger than they are. We will also take on the mood of who we are talking to. If you are excited, we will be excited. If you are depressed, we will start feeling melancholy too. This can be quite exhausting for us.
9)You have to work to get to know us.
We will not initiate a friendship. If you want to be friends with us, you have to purposely make friends with us. We don’t really feel a loss if we don’t become friends with someone. We are totally fine with just a couple of good friends; we don’t need a lot of friends to be happy.
10)INFJs hate lying, and we can tell when we are being lied to.
This is not entirely true. Yes, I find it offensive that you think I am that gullible. But, the lying does bother me. I hate when someone lies to me, or when I see them deceiving someone else. I could definitely go off on a tangent about that.😉😂
And that concludes “part 2” of The INFJ Unveiled! As I said before, I will be doing more parts in the future, because the amount of information I have is way too much for one post.The INFJ Unveiled: Part 1